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No, I Will Not Eat at Hooters

Posted by DJ Nelson on November 26th, 2008

I don’t have a problem with women making their own choices, but I do have a problem when those choices are made out of ignorance, peer pressure, or silly man made traditions.

Enter Hooters- a restaurant, and a term that is often used to describe a woman’s body part.

Women walk around in tight shirts, short shorts, and serve you chicken…so I’ve heard because I’ve never been there.

Still, I don’t see how anyone could find this quasi-strip club like atmosphere anything less than offensive. Furthermore, to allow children in such a place is just wrong.

What are you teaching your son when you take him to eat at Hooters? Women are objects who you should oogle at as they serve you food?

What are you teaching your daughters when you take them to eat at Hooters? That they should aspire to look good in underwear-like pants and cleavage-revealing tops so they can prance around men and get tips and compliments?

I know that some will argue that if a woman has a problem with it then she is insecure, uptight, and frigid.

That argument is tired, old, and played out. Why should women have to accept being objectified? Why should they have to put up with feeling uncomfortable just to fit in?

I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again. Women are the only group in the world that gets points for partaking in their own marginalization.

Girls Can’t What? Wrote a post back in March about Hooters and the comments vary from “the food is good” to “if you don’t like it, don’t eat there”, to “yup, it’s degrading.”

I left a lengthy comment myself, but it can be summed up by the last sentence: When they make a place called Balls and the men go topless wearing Speedos it will still be ridiculous, but at least I won’t be able to say “only women would put up with that trash”.

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Tags: Objectification · desensitization




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I’m so with you! AMEN

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I totally agree, of course! I think it’s high time we women stop drinking the kool-aid and letting our daughters take sips as well. Hooters is NOT ok.

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Ha, we aren’t only letting them take sips of the kool-aid, we are dunking them in head first.

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I absolutely agree. I don’t understand how people can be offended by a nursing mom band then take their children for a meal at Hooters. It’s just so hypocritical.

LOL on the “Balls” idea ;-) And… ewww, I wouldn’t eat there either.



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