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The Beyonce Effect
Is Beyonce a good role model for young girls?
The day I saw her video for Single Ladies, I wrote a status on Facebook wondering how long it would take for little girls to start uploading videos of themselves doing the choreography.
By the way, how old does that last girl look, 9?
Hey, everyone has hobbies I guess, but I’m starting to wonder is Beyonce a woman that our young girls need to watch and emulate?
If I had a daughter would I have a problem with her being a Beyonce fan?
Save the vegetable throwing and the cries of “you are such a hater!” because I’m asking a legit question.
Let’s see…
From the provocative dances, to the barely there outfits when I think of Beyonce, I think of a sex object, and to me that’s not a compliment nor does it make a good role model.
I suppose people will make the argument- she’s strong, she’s successful, she hasn’t done anything bad so what’s the big deal?
Well if that’s the standards you hold for someone to be a good influence then that’s on you. But I think it’s time to raise the bar.
I remember watching one of her videos where she was dancing around her (then boyfriend, now husband) Jay-Z as if she was a part of his harem. I thought to myself, this is her video, her song! Why is she dancing around this rapper like she’s some oversexed concubine? That’s not showing control. That’s not showing strength. It just left a bad taste in my mouth.
Not to mention some of her lyrics…
And photo shoots…
What about her gives the message that women were not put on this earth to be sexual eye candy for men?
Maybe I’m just old fashioned but I think it takes more than a pretty smile, a lack of a criminal record, and a popular song to make someone a good role model.
So to answer my original question- no.




I am a fan of hers but I definitely hear you. When I saw the “Single Ladies” video my mouth dropped open and my first reaction was disappointment. I like her and I didn’t want her to be “that way” so blatantly. I think she’s a tremendous talent but this Sasha Fierce stuff is a little too oversexed for my taste.